Choose yourself, not once, not twice...

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Please don't ever abandon  yourself again.  Especially not in the name of trying to be validated by a temporary connection.  Stop holding on to things that don't demonstrate respect for your value. Start investing in things that remind you of your worth.  You deserve so much more.  And don’t shrink yourself just to fit into spaces that were never meant to hold your light.  Stop explaining your worth to those committed to misunderstanding you. Silence can be dignity too. Choose yourself, not once, not twice, but every single time it feels uncomfortable to do so. Let go without guilt, walk away without fear, and trust that what’s truly yours will never require you to abandon who you are. Grow into someone who feels like home to their own soul. Because at the end of it all,  the longest relationship you’ll ever have is the one you build with yourself.

It's so difficult to describe depression to



It's so difficult to describe depression to
someone who's never been there, because
it's not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is
to cry and to feel. But it's that cold absence
of feeling that really hollowed-out feeling.
-J.K. Rowling

My take on it-

That cold, hollow feeling can make you believe that nothing will ever change, that this emptiness is all there is. But even in that quiet numbness, there is still a small part of you that wants relief, that wants warmth again, and that part matters.

Depression may take your energy, your colors, your sense of yourself, but it cannot take your ability to heal. Feelings can return slowly, like the first light before sunrise. You might not notice it at first a tiny spark of interest, a moment of calm, a breath that feels a little lighter but those small moments are signs that you are still here, still capable of feeling, still capable of hope.

You are not broken. You are tired, you are hurting, and you are human. And being human means you can be held, understood, and helped.

One day, the warmth will come back maybe gently, maybe in waves and when it does, you’ll realize that the part of you that kept going through the cold was stronger than you ever knew.

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