Choose yourself, not once, not twice...

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Please don't ever abandon  yourself again.  Especially not in the name of trying to be validated by a temporary connection.  Stop holding on to things that don't demonstrate respect for your value. Start investing in things that remind you of your worth.  You deserve so much more.  And don’t shrink yourself just to fit into spaces that were never meant to hold your light.  Stop explaining your worth to those committed to misunderstanding you. Silence can be dignity too. Choose yourself, not once, not twice, but every single time it feels uncomfortable to do so. Let go without guilt, walk away without fear, and trust that what’s truly yours will never require you to abandon who you are. Grow into someone who feels like home to their own soul. Because at the end of it all,  the longest relationship you’ll ever have is the one you build with yourself.
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You deserve someone who doesn't just keep you...

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Being kept around and being fully chosen are two very different things. 

One feels like waiting in the background of someone’s life, the other feels like being the reason they show up.

Being kept is convenience, answered when it’s easy, remembered when it’s lonely. But being chosen is intention, consistent, certain, and proud.

You won’t have to question where you stand, when someone truly chooses you.

There is no confusion in genuine care. So don’t settle for almost, for sometimes, for “when it suits them.”

You deserve someone who doesn’t just keep you, but claims you with clarity, with effort, with their whole heart. Because love should never feel like you’re waiting to be picked.

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